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35 Bible Verses To Celebrate Turning 35 With Faith, Hope and Love

35 Bible Verses To Celebrate Turning 35 With Faith, Hope and Love

35 Bible Verses To Celebrate Turning 35 With Faith, Hope and Love

Birthdays always leave me filled with hope and quite sentimental.  I love how this day serves as an indicator (often, otherwise overlooked) of all we have encountered within the past year.  

It is so easy, especially the older we get and the more responsibilities we have (hello motherhood), to lose sight of all the incredible blessings we have been lavished with.  Whether you have had to navigate financial difficulty, grief, fertility agony, or any other endless hardship – I am willing to bet that there was some sliver of hope wedged within the past year that encouraged you to continue on.  

And ya know what? I am right there with you, friend.

A life with Christ is not usually marked by ease and prosperity.  On the contrary, the Bible declares that we will face many trials and tribulations – but to take heart, because Jesus has overcome it all (John 16:33).

My birthday twin, Anne Wilson, shared a post with 21 verses for her 21st birthday, and I thought it was beautiful and brilliant. As I celebrate my 35th year, I reflect on all that the Lord has brought me through. The good, the bad, and the ugly.

I have been blessed beyond measure and I know that it is all because of His grace. In honor of my 35th year, I wanted to share 35 of my favorite Bible verses with you all. I pray that these verses will encourage and uplift you as they have me.

Before the celebrations begin..

  • I always encourage proper study and exegesis of these verses. Do not just take them at face value. If one stands out, look into word studies, commentaries, and more to really find the history and context of the verse.
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35 Bible Verses To Celebrate Turning 35 With Faith, Hope and Love

  1. ”For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”
    Ephesians 2:10
  2. ”And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.”
    Philippians 4:19
  3. ”Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”
    1 Thessalonians 5:18
  4. ”Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.”
    Philippians 4:6
  5. ”And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”
    Romans 8:28
  6. ”Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”
    Proverbs 3:5-6
  7. ”Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!””
    Psalm 46:10
  8. ”’Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.'”
    Jeremiah 33:3
  9. ”Jesus looked at them intently and said, ‘Humanly speaking, it is impossible.’ But with God everything is possible.'”
    Matthew 19:26
  10. ”’I can do all this through him who gives me strength.'”
    Philippians 4:13
  11. ”’My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.'”
    2 Corinthians 12:9
  12. “‘Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself.’ ‘Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.'”
    Matthew 6:34
  13. “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.””
    Matthew 6:19-21  
  14. So prepare your minds for action and exercise self-control. Put all your hope in the gracious salvation that will come to you when Jesus Christ is revealed to the world.”
    1 Peter 1:13
  15. You shall be holy to me, for I the Lord am holy and have separated you from the peoples, that you should be mine.”
    Leviticus 20:26
  16. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.
    1 Corinthians 6:19-20
  17. For I will be merciful toward their iniquities, and I will remember their sins no more.”
    Hebrews 8:12
  18. Remember the wondrous works that he has done, his miracles, and the judgments he uttered,
    Psalm 105:5
  19. Remember not the sins of my youth or my transgressions; according to your steadfast love remember me, for the sake of your goodness, O Lord !
    Psalm 25:7
  20. Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble.
    Proverbs 21:23
  21. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
    Ephesians 4:32
  22. Now may the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times in every way. The Lord be with you all.
    2 Thessalonians 3:16
  23. Let no one deceive you in any way. For that day will not come, unless the rebellion comes first, and the man of lawlessness is revealed, the son of destruction, who opposes and exalts himself against every so-called god or object of worship, so that he takes his seat in the temple of God, proclaiming himself to be God.
    2 Thessalonians 2:3-4
  24. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.
    Ephesians 6:12
  25. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm.
    Ephesians 6:13
  26. For the day of the Lord is near upon all the nations. As you have done, it shall be done to you; your deeds shall return on your own head.
    Obadiah 1:15
  27. But I will sing of your strength; I will sing aloud of your steadfast love in the morning. For you have been to me a fortress and a refuge in the day of my distress.
    Psalm 59:16
  28. For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another.
    Galatians 5:13
  29. I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.
    Galatians 2:20
  30. And it shall come to pass that everyone who calls upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.’
    Acts 2:21 (ESV)
  31. “Fear not, O land; be glad and rejoice, for the LORD has done great things!
    Joel 2:21 (ESV)
  32. He changes times and seasons; he removes kings and sets up kings; he gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to those who have understanding
    Daniel 2:21 (ESV)
  33. ‘but in these last days he has spoken to us by his Son, whom he appointed the heir of all things, through whom also he created the world. ‘
    Hebrews 1:2
  34. ‘For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart. ‘
    Hebrews 4:12
  35. ‘We have this as a sure and steadfast anchor of the soul, a hope that enters into the inner place behind the curtain, ‘
    Hebrews 6:19
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35 Bible Verses To Celebrate Turning 35 With Faith, Hope and Love

As I embark on this new chapter of life, I’m reminded that no matter what the world throws my way, God is always with me. His love for me is unending and He has a plan for my life – even when things are tough and I can’t see it.

So as you read through these verses, know that whether you’re in a season of milestone celebrations or challenging transitions, God is walking alongside you every step of the way.

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Categories: Faith, Mental Health

How to Pray for a Grieving Heart

How to Pray for a grieving heart

How to Pray for a Grieving Heart

I am no stranger to grief.  I witnessed my great grandma lose three out of her four children by the time I was 10.  I lost both of my Dad’s parents by the time I was 18.  And I lost my own Father at 20.  My husband lost his entire family at 15. 

Grief is a common wave we navigate pretty regularly in our home.

With the start of a new year, it can often be a time of reflection, looking back on the year that has passed, and resolutions for the upcoming one. While that may bring optimism and excitement for many, it can also be a difficult period for anyone dealing with grief.

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Trying to navigate never-ending gatherings, parties, and social engagements can leave you feeling overwhelmed and exhausted before the start of the new year even sets in. It’s normal to feel this way; if you’re struggling to find joy in the celebration and festivities around you, know that you’re not alone.

If you’re like my husband, you prefer to grieve independently and silently.  If you’re like me, sharing where I’m at and what I’m going through helps me process my emotions in a more clear way.

No matter how we may process grief, as followers of Christ, we are called to not only share in one another’s joy, but to carry each other’s burdens.  Maybe you don’t know how to sit with someone in their grief, or maybe you are attempting to navigate grief on your own this season. 

Either way, continue reading to journey with me through 5 scriptures I love to pray, that encourage hope and healing (and dare I say, joy) this season. 

Please note: it is so important to seek discernment from the Holy Spirit if you are unsure how to walk with a loved one through their grief. Use these scriptures to pray out loud over yourself or your loved ones, or pray them quietly before the Lord as you lift up those you love (I have been doing this A LOT lately).   But most of all, allow God’s words to restore faith and hope by believing with all your heart, mind, and soul!

1.  John 14:27

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.”

John 14:27
Pray John 14:27

Heavenly Father, we come to You today with broken hearts, asking for comfort and peace for our beloved one who is grieving. We know that nothing can ever replace the precious one they have lost. The pain of such a deep loss is immense. Yet, Lord, we turn to You in faith knowing that You are the God of all comfort. Please pour out Your peace on them during this difficult time and help them to trust in Your unfailing love and goodness. 

We pray that You would provide strength and courage each day as they face this devastating season of life. May they sense Your presence close beside them at all times, even as they wrestle with their sorrow. Give them grace to take one step at a time and courage to look towards the future even amidst such sadness. May they experience a unique kind of joy even in their grief, knowing that when all else fails, you never will.

We may not be able to make this right or take away the pain, but thank You for the promise of John 14:27 – “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid” – which reminds us of Your abiding presence in every circumstance and situation we face. 

Lord, may our beloved one find hope in these words and trust in Your perfect plan for their lives throughout this heartbreaking ordeal.

In Jesus’ Name we pray, Amen

2.  Psalm 34:18

“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”

Psalm 34:18
Pray Psalm 34:18

Lord Jesus, we come before you today in prayer for those who are grieving. We know that the pain and burden of grief can be overwhelming and we humbly ask You to bring Your healing balm of comfort to all who are hurting. 

We are praying that You fill their hearts with hope and peace as they journey through this season of loss. Remind them that even in their darkest hour, You are near to them, loving them with an everlasting love. Let them find solace in knowing that nothing can separate them from Your great love for them. 

Help them to not become consumed by the sadness and despair they may feel, but instead give them a supernatural strength and courage to press on. Increase their faith so they trust in Your loving provision and see You as the ultimate Restorer. Open up opportunities for people around them to be there in practical ways, offering support and tangible help during this difficult time. 

Lord, thank You for being close to those who are brokenhearted and saving those whose spirits have been crushed. We place our faith in You, believing that even when life doesn’t make sense, Your ways will prevail. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

3.  Romans 8:28

“And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.”

Romans 8:28
Pray romans 8:28

Dear God,

We thank You for the comfort and peace that only You can provide. We come before You in prayer today on behalf of those who are grieving. Lord, bring them hope in this time of sorrow and anguish, we pray. Help them to cope with their grief and provide them with strength to pull through during difficult times. 

Father, give them clarity of mind to understand Your perfect will for them as Romans 8:28 tells us that all things work together for good for Your glory and purpose. Help them to trust in Your timing and plan for their lives even in the midst of pain. Provide a sense of security that comes from knowing that nothing happens outside of Your loving control. 

Help those grieving to heal from the wounds created by sorrowful losses, show them grace as they transition through pain and suffering while renewing their spirit each day. Supply an outpouring of mercy on their hearts so they may trust in You despite any challenges or hardships life throws at them. Encourage those struggling with the reality of difficult circumstances so they may look to the future with faith and confidence knowing that You will never leave or forsake them. 

We ask all these things in Jesus’ name, Amen.

4.  Isaiah 41:10

“Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

Isaiah 41:10
Pray Isaiah 41:10

Almighty God, creator of all things, we come before You today with heavy hearts and ask for Your comfort and peace to be upon our friend who is grieving. Lord, we know that this is a difficult time for them, as they feel overwhelmed by the pain and sadness of their loss. We pray that You will wrap them in Your arms of love and give them strength to move forward.

Thank You for being near to them during this challenging season. Grant them courage to keep going even when it is hard and when they don’t feel like it. Would You fill their heart with hope and assurance that things will get better with time. Help them to find joy in the little things once again, even when it doesn’t seem possible. Reveal Yourself to them in special ways that only You can do, so that they can experience Your loving presence each day.

Please, give them the words they need to be able to express themselves honestly and vulnerably while expressing how they are feeling during this process. Help us all as we seek how best to support our friend throughout their journey as they heal emotionally, spiritually, mentally, physically and relationally from this loss.

Lord, we lift up our eyes to you now because you are our Rock, Fortress and Deliverer who never changes or fails us – no matter what life throws at us! Amen

5.  1 Thessalonians 4:13-14

“But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep.”

1 Thessalonians 4:13-14
Pray Thessalonians

Father, we come to You today in plea for Your comfort and peace. Lord, You know the pain of grief that those who have lost their loved one experience. We pray that You would be present with them during this difficult time and provide strength and courage to face each day ahead. Be close to them, Lord, and fill their hearts with hope and faith. 

How grateful we are that Jesus died and rose again, so that even those who have gone before us may not be forgotten, but will be resurrected when He returns. We trust in Your promises of eternal life for all who believe in Jesus Christ. May these truths bring peace to their hearts as they grieve the loss of their beloved one. 

Give them patience as tears eventually give way to healing; replace sadness with joy over cherished memories; replace loneliness with comfort from friends and family; replace despair with assurance of a reunion one day in Heaven. Wrap them up in Your loving arms as they go through this season of life filled with sorrow. And may they find strength knowing that You are never absent—You are always right beside them! Amen

As we go into this New Year, let us not forget the power that prayer has over a grieving heart. Even Jesus, who was fully God, lamented over Lazarus’ death – knowing full well that He was going to revive his breath. 

Grief is not something God is scared of, and neither should we be.  Maybe you sit awkwardly and silently pray these scriptures over yourself or a loved one.  Or, maybe you loudly proclaim these truths together. 

This year, let us pray for our loved ones, that they would be safe and healthy, and that they would know the love of Christ. 

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Happy New Year, friends.

Categories: Faith

3 Tips to Pick a Meaningful Word of the Year

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3 Tips to Pick a Meaningful Word of the Year

I am fascinated by John 1:1.  That simple sentence holds so much power and wisdom and mystery and truth.  But, mostly, I love the acknowledgement that God is the Word.  

Words are the rhythm of my heart beat.  What I cannot speak, I write.  My love language is words of affirmations.  I am innately aware of the power words have to both inspire and hurt others. Words are, at the core, everywhere and everything.

Our current culture is enamored with words, too. From the New York Times to local news articles, choosing a word for the year is a compelling reform from the traditional New Year resolutions.

But, why?

The New York Times headlined their article with this statement;

To get the most of 2022, try choosing a word that can help you make thoughtful decisions and nudge you towards positive change.

Local news WDBJ 7 noted that a “single word can be an easier commitment than a resolution.”  They further expand that a word of the year “sets intention and general goals for the year.”

A Biblical Twist

I have actively participated in this trend for the last several years, and this year is no different.  However, my drive behind this endeavor is rooted in Hebrews 3:12-15.

'Take care, brothers, lest there be in any of you an evil, unbelieving heart, leading you to fall away from the living God. But exhort one another every day, as long as it is called “today,” that none of you may be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin. For we have come to share in Christ, if indeed we hold our original confidence firm to the end. As it is said, “Today, if you hear his voice, do not harden your hearts as in the rebellion.” '

Sister, I dont know about you, but my rebel heart is so prone to wander and is easily deceived by the things of this world.  So, for me, choosing a word for the year is most definitely an act to help me be intentional in my walk with Jesus, to set my intentions on Him, and to nudge me towards maturity in Christ.

Notes

Words I have chosen the last several years have been intentional, content, fearless. The word content started as COMMIT.  

I was moving strongly in my intentions for that word (all four weeks of it), until I had to navigate postpartum depression and anxiety. The Lord quickly changed my word from commit, to content.  

I needed to humble myself and let go of the things I wanted, and be content with what the Lord wanted for me.  I guess it can be argued that I had to commit my contentment to Him.

All that to say, even if you feel you have a solid word choice, keep it in an open hand, allowing the Holy Spirit to adjust and guide you where/when/if needed.

If you’re new to this idea, or want to seek a deeper way to determine what your word should be, here are some ideas to aid in electing your word for the year.

1. Pray about the word

If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.

James 1:5

It is so easy to pick a word we think is perfect for the year.  But I challenge you to quiet your mind and ask God to reveal to you what/where it is that He is nudging you to intentionally pursue.  

Praying about this doesn’t mean that you will automatically or audibly hear God say “Daughter, here is your word.”  You might not hear Him at all.  But our first measure of deduction should always be to seek Him first.

2. Search the Scriptures for the word

Seek the Lord and his strength; seek his presence continually!

1 Chronicles 16:11

So you’ve prayed about a word.  Now what?  If you feel that God has put a word on your heart, the next step I encourage is to go to the scriptures.  You can download the Bible App (or just go to Bible.com) and use their search tool at the top of the page.  Enter in your word and see what verses populate.  Spend some time in His word and see if something sparks a fire in your soul.

Maybe you acquired your word from a scripture (like me).  I still think its a good practice (and dare I say fun) to still do this exercise.  When I did this I found several other verses that really spoke to me.

3. Put the word into context

So, brothers, in whatever condition each was called, there let him remain with God.

1 Corinthians 7:24

You prayed, you listened, you searched the scriptures; now take a look at all your evidence and determine if the word fits into the context of your life (this is not about the context of scripture – although that is always super important and expected). Does the word align with anything you have been previously praying about, or does it speak to a certain situation you’re currently undertaking?  These are great clues to decipher your word for the year.

My word for 2022 is Growth. 

I want to grow spiritually, in motherhood, as a wife, daughter, friend, and writer. I want to grow in perseverance, kindness, humility, and grace! I want to grow in discipleship, obedience, and discipline.

I have been cultivating a lot of these things for awhile, and now the Lord is really calling me to step out in faith, trust Him, and GROW. Because when I grow, He gets the glory!

2 Peter 3:18 is the verse that convicted my heart and i instantly knew that my word was GROWTH. 

But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity. Amen.

I was praying diligently and actively asking God to show me where it is He wanted me in this season.  I want to seek His will in every little and big aspect of my life.  So, hearing this word so clearly, is both incredible and terrifying.  

I am so excited to see what this year will look like, and a little nervous for what will transpire along the way.  

Ultimately, my hope and my confidence are anchored in the creator of the universe, and I know that no matter what storm may arise, I am going to be ok as I set my intentions, my goals, and my focus on Jesus. 

I would love for you to grow with me.  Connect with me on social media (@iamanchoredbyhope) and/or join my community below and let me know what word you choose or have already chosen! 

EDIT: January 1, 2023

Wow. I wish I could eloquently explain just how much the word GROW was really cultivated in my life in 2022.

  • I watched my kids grow – not just in height and character but – in their love and knowledge of the Lord Jesus.
  • Our marriage grew stronger, our rhythms grew steadier, my faith grew in grace and knowledge of who Jesus is.
  • My confidence in writing grew as I watched one of my devotionals be published by Proverbs 31 Ministries.
  • My trust grew as I let go of Andy and sent him to half day kindergarten.
  • Our garden literally grew. Chamomile, Kale, Broccoli, Basil, Lemon Balm, Mint.. my passion for sustainability grew, too. My love of nature and the divine way God orchestrated everything we would need.
  • My grief grew. Mike says how much he misses his family with every passing year. I’m starting to miss them, too. And I won’t have the chance to thank them for the amazing son they raised until we are all united in the New Heavens and New Earth. Ive missed my grandma more than ever.

GROW was such an outstandingly pivotal term in 2022 and I could not give God enough glory or be more grateful for the unshakable knowledge that that is the word He led me to as I clicked these keys last year.

EDIT (December 2023)
Word of the Year 2024

I love editing this post and sharing how the Lord used my word for the year.

My word for 2023 was REMEMBER. As the year progressed, I didn’t see this phrase come to fruition as I did with words in the past. I felt more like grow was the term that continued to culminate this year.

This made me realize that just because it’s a new year doesn’t mean you need a new word. Maybe there is something to be learned about reflection and remembering the word of the previous year?

Either way, I am very confident in the way the Lord has been leading me to my term for 2024.. drumroll please..

quiet.

I want to quiet my heart so I can listen to God. This song has been played regularly and my soul cries out in worship with it. I have a feeling it may show up on my top songs of 2024 as I continue to seek to cultivate quiet.

I want to quiet my tongue. I talk too much. Truly. I am aware enough of who I am to boldly proclaim that the last word must always be mine. Instead of seeking to prove my point, I pray I can discern when to fight for my speech and when to quiet my tongue.

I want to experience quiet; peaceful mornings before the kids awake, even if it means waking at 4 am. Quiet submission to my husband and God, not seeking to prove anything to this world or the people in it, quiet the doubt and fear that seek to destroy the calling God has placed on my life.

I must confess, I was shocked when I started searching the scriptures and realized just how much God has to say about quiet. I may conduct a word study sometime this year to dive in more deeply. Make sure to reach out if this is something you’re interested in, too.

So, here are three verses that have really answered my prayer as I sought God’s wisdom, searched the scriptures, and fit quite perfectly into the context of life at the moment;

Zephaniah 3:17
I love that quiet and love are equated here. While simultaneously, loudness is the result of exultation. There is a time for the noise, but cultivating quiet is a gift from God.

Word of the year Zephaniah 3:17

Isaiah 32:7
The subtle difference in the use of words for the effect versus the result of righteousness are not lost on me. I pray this year I can cultivate both peace + quiet from growing in righteousness that Christ so freely gives us access to.

Word of the year Isaiah 32:17

1 Peter 3:4
In a culture that is so concerned with appearance and accessories, I appreciate the reminder that – while there is nothing wrong with caring for our complexion and enjoying beautiful things – its the quiet spirit, the unwavering trust and constant communion with Jesus that is most precious to God.

Word of the year 1 Peter 3:4

I cannot wait to see the way the Lord works within your heart and in this year. Id love to know what word you choose! Make sure to leave a comment or tag me if you share on social media @iamanchoredbyhope!

Happy New Year, Friends! May you be anchored in the Hope of Jesus in this new chapter!

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Lessons from the Greatest Love Story of All Time 

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Lessons from the Greatest Love Story of All Time

The fourth week of Advent was all about reflecting on LOVE. What better way to do that than to look at the greatest love story ever told? Of course, I’m talking about Jesus and His love for us. Jesus gave His life so that we can live, and the Bible tells us that there is no greater love than this (John 15:13). Let’s take a moment to reflect on what this kind of incomprehensible love looks like and how it can inspire us today. 

Unconditional Love

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Love is a word that is used so often that its power can be lost in translation. However, when we look at the Bible, it becomes clear that love isn’t just some abstract concept or feeling; it is an action. In 1 Corinthians 13, Paul outlines what true love looks like: patient, kind, not envious or boastful, not arrogant or rude—the list goes on and on.

What stands out about love is that it doesn’t rely on conditions. Jesus’ love doesn’t come with strings attached. It’s simply unconditional acceptance no matter who you are or what you’ve done. This type of love was demonstrated by God when He sent His Son to die for humanity’s sins—that is true unconditional love! 

The most remarkable thing about Jesus’s love is that he loved unconditionally. He didn’t wait for us to be perfect before loving us, he loved us in spite of our imperfections (Romans 5:8).

We are constantly striving to be good enough in our own eyes, but Jesus reminds us that we don’t have to do any of that. Because of Jesus, we are already worthy of unconditional love simply because we are made in God’s image (1 John 4:12).

It doesn’t matter what mistakes we’ve made or how far away from God we may feel—Jesus loves us just as we are (Romans 8:35-39).

Sacrificial Love

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In addition to unconditional love, Jesus also showed sacrificial love. This kind of love doesn’t think twice about making sacrifices for someone else’s benefit. This kind of radical selflessness was very rare in ancient times (and still is today).

Then came Jesus. Jesus was willing to put himself on the line for others without hesitation or expectation of reward. He did it out of pure, unconditional love (Ephesians 3:18). Jesus showed us what true agape love looks like. Through his example, Jesus demonstrated how powerful it can be when used in service of others. 

As Christian moms in a world filled with so much distraction and uncertainty, sometimes it can feel hard to connect with others. It can be hard to build relationships. But if we look to 1 John 4:7-8, it says, “Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loves is born of God, and knows God.”

When we focus on loving others in spite of our differences and disagreements, then real connection starts to happen. These are connections based on trust and understanding rather than judgment or fear. 

Unselfish Love

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Finally, Jesus showed unselfish love by putting others first even when it was inconvenient or uncomfortable for him (John 4:1-42). In many ways, this is perhaps the most difficult type of love. That’s because it requires a level of humility and generosity beyond what most people are willing to give. This love requires you to think less about yourself and more about others.

This is precisely what Jesus did throughout his ministry. Jesus healed the sick, fed the hungry, comforted the grieving, and gave hope to those who had none. And, He did this all out of unselfishness and compassion for his fellow man. 

When we focus on demonstrating unconditional love to others, like Jesus did for us, we are naturally lead back to Him. We get so caught up in our day-to-day lives that sometimes the idea of God can seem distant or even irrelevant. However, when we choose to live a life rooted in loving others like Jesus did, suddenly He doesn’t seem so far away after all (Galatians 5:6)!

We remember His call to reach out with mercy and grace instead of judgment and condemnation – something that could benefit us all during this chaotic time! 

Conclusion: 

As Christian millenial moms navigating this unique season with all its challenges and distractions, let’s take time this week to reflect on what it means to truly demonstrate Christ’s unconditional love. Let’s look towards those around us – both strangers and friends alike!

Through our acts of kindness and patience (even when they might not be returned), may our lives serve as reminders that LOVE truly IS the greatest gift. May the Lord bless your efforts as you strive each day to honor Him through your actions! And may this advent season be one of incredible encounters with our Emmanuel.

Amen.

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Advent Reflections: The Joy Found in Jesus

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Advent Reflections:
The Joy Found in Jesus

During this Advent season, the theme of joy seems especially difficult to grasp. In these times of uncertainty and unrest, it can be hard to believe that real, lasting joy is even possible. But God’s Word tells us again and again that eternal joy comes through Him alone – no matter our circumstances here on earth.

So as we embark on Week 3 in our journey towards Christmas Day by reflecting on the Joy found through Jesus Christ, let us draw ourselves closer to His will for our lives so that we can experience a greater sense of hope and peace in knowing He is with us always.

Joy Rooted in Faith

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The Bible teaches us that joy is more than just a feeling of happiness; it is an emotion rooted in faith. Paul writes in Galatians 5:22-23 that “the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience…” Joy is thus about finding strength and contentment even in difficult times. It enables us to experience God’s presence in our lives despite any hardships and circumstances we are facing.

Joy is an emotion that exists far beyond our earthly realm; it is the fruit of faith and the Spirit of God. Joy penetrates even the darkest and most difficult of times, enabling us to feel a sense of contentment in knowing that God is always with us. It allows us to recognize His divine presence in everything we experience and embrace Him as our source of strength.

Joy gives us hope that life can be full despite any hardships we might face, and this joy rooted in faith gives us peace. As Paul exhorts in Philippians 4:4, “Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I say, rejoice!” May we each have Joy abide in our hearts as evidence of the incredible power embedded within faith.

Joy Proclaimed by the Angels

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In Luke 2:10, when angels announced the birth of Jesus to shepherds in the fields, they proclaimed: “Do not be afraid; for behold, I bring you good news of great joy which will be for all people.”

The announcement in Luke 2:10 of Jesus’ birth brought a message of real joy – not fleeting convenience or pleasure. Joy that God, in His love and mercy, had come to redeem us from sin and death. Joy that has the potential to overcome any grief and sorrow we experience in life.

This is the Joy that only drawing near to God through believing in Jesus as our Lord and Savior can bring – Joy for all people! We can trust God and His promises, no matter what lies ahead. He has already come rescuing us with Joy so our hope is always secure. Let us release our fears and cling fast to this Joy, knowing it originated from an everlasting Love beyond compare!

Joy Promised by the Prophets

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In the book of Isaiah (Isaiah 9:6-7), God promised a Messiah who would bring peace and justice to all people: “For unto us a child is born, unto us a Son is given; and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the increase of his government there shall be no end…”

Joy and celebration reverberate through the pages of Isaiah at the promise of a Messiah who will bring peace and deliverance to those in need. The messiah, as explained in Isaiah 9:6-7, is described as having “unending strength,” as well as “wisdom and knowledge.”

This aspect of unending strength brings great comfort and hope to those looking for a source of protection in times of strife or tragedy. Furthermore, this same strength provides joy to those who find it difficult to navigate life’s ever-changing trajectory; for just like the messiah offers constant endurance, so does the joy that follows in his wake.

No matter what may come or go, this joy has an everlasting capacity to sustain and surround us. This is Joy that many believe makes celebrating life even brighter when shared with all its inhabitants in kindness and service. This is Joy that instills hope with every new day that we are presented with – reminding us all why rejoicing in the Lord is so important.

Conclusion

As we reflect on Advent this year let us remember that Jesus offers us real and lasting joy unlike anything else this world has to offer (Psalm 16:11). We can draw closer to Him by spending time with Him through prayer and reading His Word (2 Timothy 3:16-17). As we do this let us ask Him for wisdom so that we may walk faithfully according to His will (James 1:5) and receive greater understanding about how He desires for us to live out His commands so that we may truly rejoice in Him always (1 John 5:3).

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Advent Reflections: Unwrapping the Gift of Peace

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Advent Reflections: Unwrapping the Gift of Peace

‘Tis the season to be jolly, and to reflect on the true meaning of Christmas. For Christians, that means celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ, who came to bring us peace. For week two of advent, we’re unwrapping what this means.

Peace is a gift that Jesus offers us — a peace that surpasses all understanding. As we count down the days until Christmas, let’s take a moment to reflect on what peace means for us.

What does it look like in our lives? How can we work towards achieving peace in our homes and communities? Join me as we explore these questions.

Exegesis – Peace That Surpasses All Understanding

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In Philippians 4:7 (ESV), the Apostle Paul writes, “And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” The Prince of Peace promises a peace not found in this world.

This type of peace comes from God alone; it is deep and security-giving, grace-filled and healing.

In Greek, the word for peace is eirene. It’s derived from the verb eiro, which means “to join.” So peace literally means “to join together.” And when we apply that definition to Philippians 4:7, we see that the peace of God is a peace that unites our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

It’s a peace that comes from knowing Him and being united with Him.

This peace is not something that we can understand with our human minds. On the contrary, It’s beyond our understanding because it’s supernatural. It’s a peace that can only come from God. And it’s a peace that guards our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

When we have this peace, we don’t have to be anxious or afraid because we know that Jesus is with us always. Instead, He will never leave us or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5). That means we can rest in His peace and know that He is in control.

The Prince of Peace

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The Bible often speaks about the preciousness and value of shalom – or internal spiritual peace with God – as it is given by God alone. This type of peace stands in contrast to the chaos and violence we often experience in our lives today. It transcends circumstances because it is rooted in God’s love for us.

In respect, no matter what hardships we face, we can know that His peace will remain with us and guide us through any situation when we remain rooted in Him.

In addition, Jesus offers us an everlasting kind of comfort and protection against fear, worry, anxiety and stress that cannot be gained from any worldly source or thing. It does not depend on outside sources for its strength, but instead comes from the very presence of Jesus Himself dwelling within us.

Even if there may be turmoil around us, our hearts can still be filled with His calming presence if we trust Him completely as our heavenly Father who deeply cares for each one of His children no matter what struggles they have faced (Romans 8:38-39). 

Before Jesus took His life to the cross, he gave us a promise: “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you…Let not your heart be troubled nor let it be afraid.”

John 14:27

The Promise of Peace

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So even when facing difficult situations or hard times we can find strength in knowing that His unfailing love surrounds us like a shield (Psalm 3:3).

We can find refuge in Him who makes everything new again (Revelations 21:5).

Allowing ourselves to surrender to His plans allows us to know true assurance and security even amidst life’s uncertainties since He works all things together for good (Romans 8:28). 

In seeking out His perfect plan for our lives, He grants us a special kind of inner-peace where joy overflows even when the circumstances around us are dark or uncertain.

That inner contentment cannot be bought nor found anywhere else except through Jesus Christ who gives it freely out of His never-ending love for each one of His children–His true gift to mankind which will remain forever!

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MERRY CHRISTMAS!

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5 Tips to Take the Stress out of Christmas

5 Tips to take the stress out of Christmas

5 Tips to Take the Stress out of Christmas

Holiday stress got you feeling more Scrooge than Santa? You’re not alone. The holidays are a hectic time for many of us. But there are ways to make the season a little brighter and a little less stressful, so we can focus on the true reason for the season – Jesus. Here are five simple tips to simplify your Christmas season and take some of the stress out of it. 

1. Make a List and Check It Twice (or Thrice) 

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One of the best things you can do is make a list…and check it twice (or thrice). Seriously, getting all your holiday tasks down on paper (or in your phone) can help you feel more organized and in control. Not sure where to start? Make a list of everything you need to do between now and the end of the year, including shopping, wrapping, baking, card-writing, travel plans, party preparations, and anything else that’s on your plate.

Once you have your complete list, start tackling each item one by one. Checking things off as you go will help you stay focused and motivated, and it’ll also give you a much-needed sense of accomplishment. And when it comes to holiday stress, every little bit helps! your lists, check them twice (or even thrice!) to make sure everything is accounted for. 

2. Start Early 

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If the holidays tend to be a stressful time for you, then you’re not alone. In fact, a recent survey found that nearly 60% of Americans experience increased stress during the holiday season. One of the best ways to reduce holiday stress is to start your preparations early. That way, you can avoid the last-minute rush and enjoy the festive season at a more leisurely pace. Of course, starting early doesn’t mean you have to start decorating your home in October. But it does mean taking care of some of the essential tasks when you can.

There are only so many hours in a day and even fewer during the holidays when things really start ramping up—so get a head start on all those tasks now! Start shopping early so you don’t have to worry about running out of time or being stuck with limited options come Christmas Eve. And if you plan on hosting any gatherings, begin planning right away so you don’t find yourself scrambling at the last minute trying to pull everything together. 

3. Set Realistic Expectations 

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The holidays are a time for family, friends, and, unfortunately, stress. There’s the pressure to find the perfect gifts, make everything from scratch, and host the most idyllic holiday gathering ever. It’s enough to make even the most cheerful person want to pull their hair out. But before you do, take a deep breath and remind yourself that the holidays don’t have to be perfect. In fact, they’re often more enjoyable when they’re not.

Listen – I know It’s easy to get caught up in wanting your holiday season to look just like those perfectly staged photos on Instagram, but chances are those ideal photos aren’t reflective of reality—so set realistic expectations for yourself and your family this holiday season. You don’t have to do it all; focus on what matters most and let go of anything that doesn’t bring joy! 

4. Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff 

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The holidays are a time for joy, laughter, and love. But they can also be a time of stress and anxiety. Remember not to sweat the small stuff this holiday season! If something isn’t going exactly as planned or if something goes awry at the last minute, take a deep breath and move on. The holidays are supposed to be fun, so don’t let the little things ruin your mood. After all, your family won’t care if there’s one less side dish or if Grandma’s present arrives late; they’ll still be just as happy and grateful for each other’s company regardless!

Make sure to schedule some “me” time into your holiday plans. Whether it’s taking a long bath or going for a walk in the park, make sure to carve out some time to relax and de-stress. Finally, remember that it’s okay to say no. If you’re feeling overwhelmed with holiday parties or family gatherings, it’s perfectly acceptable to politely decline an invitation.

5. Rely On Others For Help 

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By far the hardest tip for me to personally adhere to is asking and relying on others for help.  If you’re like me, you want to do it all yourself because you know everyone has a full plate right now.  But, the thing is, no one can do it all alone—it takes a village! So don’t be afraid to ask others for help when you need it most this holiday season; friends, family members, neighbors…they’re all great resources who would likely love nothing more than being able to lend a helping hand during this busy time of year!

Whether it’s pitching in with the cooking or offering to drive Auntie Marge to the airport, a little assistance can go a long way. So if you’re feeling stressed this holiday season, remember that it’s okay to ask for help. After all, that’s what loved ones are for.

Conclusion: This holiday season doesn’t have to be stressful—by following these five tips, you can simplify things and focus on what really matters most: spending quality time with loved ones while celebrating God’s goodness in our lives! Subscribe to our virtual community to get more encouraging tips throughout the new year! 

Merry Christmas!

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Advent Reflections: The Hope We Have In Jesus

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Advent Reflections: The Hope We Have in Jesus

It’s the start of advent week one! This week is all about my favorite VERB – Hope!! We can find hope for what’s to come in the new year, hope for forgiveness and grace for our mistakes, and (un-arguably) the Hope that is the reason for the season – Jesus. As Millennial Christian Mothers, we can be encouraged to find joy and peace in Jesus this season.  Let’s dive into this week’s reflection and see how we can use the scripture to deepen our understanding of what it means to have hope in Christ. 

Weekly Scripture

The scripture for this week comes from Romans 5:5 which states “And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” This verse reminds us that when we are filled with hope, there is nothing that can stand in our way. We have access to a powerful source of love that will guide us through any situation. 

Advent Week 1 Hope

This verse, often called the golden chain of redemption, is an important part of understanding the concept of hope, particularly in terms of how it relates to Jesus and his role in our salvation.

Exegesis

When we turn to Romans 5:5 and look at its original context in the epistle written by Paul, we can get a better understanding of what he meant by “hope” and how it plays into our relationship with Jesus. In this passage, Paul is discussing the effects of sin on individual believers. He states that because of Adam’s sin, human beings have all become subject to death. However, he also says that despite this universal subjection to death, there is still hope for us that comes from God’s mercy and grace through Jesus Christ. 

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Paul also uses this passage to discuss the concept of faith and how it enables believers to have access to God’s mercy and grace through Jesus. Faith is defined as an enduring belief or trust in someone or something; in this case it is trust in God’s promises through Christ’s work on the cross. When one puts their faith in Jesus they are forgiven their sins and receive eternal life with Him (John 3:16). It is with this assurance that believers find hope even amidst suffering and despair. 

The phrase “God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit” refers specifically to God sending His Spirit down upon believers who have accepted Him as Lord and Savior (Acts 2:38). The Holy Spirit gives believers power over sin and brings life back into those who were once dead (Romans 8: 2-11). Through His Spirit, God pours His unconditional love into us which enables us not only live a new life but also experience hope beyond what this world can offer. 

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Hope came down

This outpouring is further explained by Paul when he says that it occurs “through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.” Here again, we see an action in which God actively provides and gives His love to us through the Holy Spirit. This highlights an important point—God does not merely give us His promise and expect us to believe; instead, He actually comes down and gives Himself to us as proof of His commitment and faithfulness. 

As Christian mothers, let’s remember that our ultimate source of hope lies in Jesus Christ alone—not circumstances or even people around us (Romans 15:13). So take heart today and remember that He has given us peace during difficult times (John 14:27), guidance when we feel lost (Psalm 32:8), and strength beyond measure (Philippians 4:13). May this advent season bring more understanding of His great love for each one of us!

Amen!

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Anchored by Hope Devotions: War of the Words

A devotional by Nicole Domitro

“But no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so.” James‬ ‭3:8-10‬ ‭ESV‬‬
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War of the Words

‭Growing up, I was well aware that my family was by no means “normal.”  They were loud, angry, loving, compassionate, judgmental.  It was like living in a constant state of emotional conflict, like being endlessly tossed by the waves. But, it was my normal. 

Words were thrown about like a pebble on the water; sweet words and affirmations would continue on in a ripple effect, growing in awe inspiring spirals that you wouldn’t believe. Angry remarks plunged – to the foundations of my heart – like heavy rocks that instantly sink into a deep abyss.

It is this very ignorance to the impact that words carry and the weight of the power they hold that James is warning believers about in James 3:8-10.  

It shouldn’t surprise us that James speaks so bluntly about how we are to speak if we are followers of Christ.  Most scholars consent that this author James is the same James that was a half brother of Jesus.  There is not much in scripture about Jesus’ childhood, but from Mark 6:3, we know Mary and Joseph had at least four other sons (James, Joses, Judas, and Simon) and an unaccounted number of daughters.

Can you imagine growing up with God, but thinking He was just your know-it-all older brother? We only know what scripture tells us, but it isn’t hard to imagine timeless sibling strife. 

But all of this changes when Jesus is resurrected.  1 Corinthians 15:6-7 informs us that Jesus showed himself to the disciples and 500 others.  The only person named out of the 500 was James.  Can you even fancy that picture?  What it must have been like to see your brother, who you grew up with, resurrected from the dead, realizing that He is, indeed, God?

We are not told what that meeting was like, but by his letter, we can only envision it was life changing.

Maybe that’s why I am always awestruck at the challenging and encouraging attitude that James exhibits through his script. His words are real, raw, and unrelenting.  I love that.  I need that.  Because for too long I had been harmed by words, my heart broken by false promises spoken, and I ashamedly have used my own words as weapons. Just me?

The idea that no human can control their tongue is not foreign to me, and I’m willing to bet you’re in the same boat .  On the contrary, reading this chapter of James often feels like a personal attack on my greatest flaws. It wasn’t until I started dating my husband that someone looked at me and told me I was wrong.  There was another way to speak, another way to communicate, a better way to live.  

I started to become more mindful of the magnitude of my words, and moreover how they connected with the reality of my faith.  When I am soaking in scripture and fervently in prayer, when I surrender my anxiety and doubt, the fruit of that is most evident in my speech and attitude.

James doesn’t leave us to wither in pity over our contradictory words and actions, instead, he encourages us in wisdom.  

“For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice. But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere.”

James‬ ‭3:16-17‬ ‭ESV

I don’t know about you, but those traits listed seem like exemplary communication skills.  I think about how I feel when others talk to me in that way; open to reason and sincere.  I think about how my children react to me when I speak gently and full of mercy.

No human may be able to tame the tongue, but Jesus can.  And, sister, He has given us enough grace and mercy to keep trying to end the war of the words with every morning sunrise.  

The stone is in your hand.  Will you toss the pebble gently, or let it sink hard and fast?

Lord, thank you so much for your amazing grace.  How I praise you for the way you unconditionally love us, God, dying for us while we were still sinners.  Forgive us, Father, for the way we speak to you and to those you love.  Give us strength in the mighty name of Jesus to use our words wisely, ultimately giving all the glory to you.  We love you, and we lift up our lives to you.  In Jesus’ name.  Amen.

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5 Songs to Blast When Your Heart is Grieving

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5 Songs to Blast When Your Heart is Grieving


If you’ve ever been a part of a club, you know you’re surrounded by a community of like minded individuals. 

Grief is like an anti club. Instead of being bonded by similar interests, you’re instead thrust into a group of those who would all rather choose a different means of mental state. 

As a child, I attended more somber funeral luncheons than celebrated wedding receptions. It’s no wonder my little empath heart learned early on not only what grief was, but how it made everyone feel. Or so I thought (as most people do).

Then my father died.  I was 20 and my brother was 15. Personally experiencing grief in this magnitude was the prerequisite to a club I never wanted to belong to. 

Maybe you feel that way, too. Maybe you – like me, like my husband – have lost those closest to you, those you thought would be with you forever (like Simba pondering with Mufasa if he would always be with him).

The thing is, grief doesn’t discriminate. It comes at any age, in any season, for any reason. It is never welcome. And, contrary to what others will tell you, once you are in the club, you’re always in the club. The feeling doesn’t go away. It barely gets better.

Instead, grief is like a wound. You apply a bandage to stop the bleeding and allow the blood to clot. When you rip that bandaid off, the sting is hard and fast. The initial pain is gone, and it may not gush blood anymore – it may even scar – but the sting happens no matter how many times you rip the bandage off. From there on out, every other cut or scrape that grazes that area reminds you of the initial wound.

That’s how it felt when my great grandma – my everything – went to be with Jesus last year. Just four days short of her 102nd birthday, the wind beneath my wings took her last breath at home, surrounded by those who loved her most. 

The hot tears, aching in your gut, and pounding in your chest are the welcome committee of the grief club knocking on the door of your heart. 

“Hey girl. It’s me. Open up.”

When grief comes knocking, do you answer or bolt the lock?

Rather than bolt the door and draw the curtains, I’ve learned to welcome grief. Letting myself feel the pain of the loss allows me to fully experience the strength and peace that can only come from Christ. 

“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”
Psalm‬ ‭34:18‬ ‭ESV

This psalm was written by King David, a man after God’s own heart.  David had an eloquent way of describing the omnipresence of God in a humanly relatable way.  I love this Psalm because, when we break it down, we see that the world abounds with instances of those who can fully understand this language.

Scripture Quote | Psalm 34:18

Sister, if your heart is grieving while you read this, I hope you can take heart in the promise that you are not alone. When our arms are clenched against our stomach, our knees are pressed against the floor, the creator of the universe is holding you in the palm of His hand.  He has the power to give you peace that surpasses all understanding.

I don’t write these words expecting them to ignite some grand allusion that grief can – or even should – instantly be alluded with a prayer or by reading some scripture.

Instead, I hope this encourages you that even in our grief, God is good.  He is near. And there is hope. Even when it doesn’t feel like it.

That is why I wanted to share five worship songs I love to blast when the bandage is torn and the sting is raw.  These words and melodies help my soul remember that even in the hard and the hurting, there is a sovereign God who will wipe away every tear one day.

Until that day, turn these up.

5 Songs to Blast When Your Heart is Grieving

  1. The Blessing – Kari Jobe 

Why I love it: I sang this song at my great grandma’s funeral.  I could barely echo the chorus as my tears turned into a waterfall, violent and uncontrollable.  

Favorite verse: 
In the morning, in the evening
In your coming, and your going
In your weeping, and rejoicing
He is for you, He is for you
Kari Jobe – The Blessing
  1. Even When it Hurts – Hillsong UNITED

Why I love it:  This song is so real.  No one ever said this Christian life was going to be easy.  There is no prosperity gospel in the Bible.  Instead, the pages are saturated with the truth that this life is HARD, but there is still HOPE. 

Favorite verse:
Even when the fight seems lost
I'll praise You
Even when it hurts like hell
I'll praise You
Even when it makes no sense to sing
Louder then I'll sing Your praise,
I will only sing Your praise
  1. Remember – Lauren Daigle

Why I love it: It’s easy to remember how faithful and sovereign God is when were living in lush valleys and bustling seasons.  It’s another thing to remember when our hearts are aching and the hills are high and the weight of despair is heavy. Yet – God is the same always, never changing, no matter what circumstance or season we are in.

Favorite verse:
I will lift my eyes even in the pain
Above all the lies, I know You can make a way
I have seen giants fall, I have seen mountains move
I have seen waters part because of You
  1. Thy Will – Hilary Scott

Why I love it: A friend sent this to me after I suffered a tragic miscarriage.  The raw emotion and haunting melody echo my souls surrender of confusion, anger, and ultimate hope in the sovereignty of God.

Favorite verse:
I know You’re good
But this don’t feel good right now
And I know You think
Of things I could never think about
It’s hard to count it all joy
Distracted by the noise
Just trying to make sense
Of all Your promises
Sometimes I gotta stop
Remember that You’re God
And I am not
  1. Brave Heart – Tasha Layton

Why I love it: Tasha’s words always feel like they’re coming right out of the diary of my heart.  It doesn’t matter how great the grief is we feel, because we have an even greater God that can take that grief and use it in mighty ways for His glory.

Favorite verse:
Look at how far you've come
And you're still breathing
You've got a brave heart
Such a brave heart
Maybe there's someone out there
Who needs to know that
They've got a brave heart

Can I pray for you?

Lord, thank you so much for faithfulness, for the promise that even in the hurting, our hearts can take refuge in your sovereignty.  Forgive us when we forget that you alone are the giver of peace.  I know all too well how easy it is to turn to the things of this world for comfort amidst the chaos.  I ask, Father, that you would hold us up in your strong hand, that you would remind us of your goodness, and encourage us in hope.  May we always give our all to you – the good and the grief.  In Jesus’ name, Amen.

If you’re like me, your heart speaks in music.  Here is my favorite Spotify playlist to cry to.

Do you have a favorite song that didn’t make the list?  Let me know!

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